You have my deepest sympathies. As a Democrat in Texas, I have considerable experience knowing how you must feel.
However, after the reality of it sinks in, you just have to move on, in a grown-up way.
Examples of some really grown-up things you could do in order to help you with your grieving process might be to push for secession and move away from the U.S. or relocate to a bunker and stock up on guns and ammo and express hatred for Democrats (including divorcing your spouse if he or she is one), and quit your job if your boss supports Obama, and crap on your Obama-voting neighbor’s yard, and fire your Democratic clients, and boycott businesses accepting government assistance for families, and spit at people and call them communist pigs, and and just in general have a good ol’ time comparing people to Nazis.
Yeah, that’ll probably do the trick. I bet you feel better already.